It’s always a good day when I get to hang out with my grandson, Liam. Liam is 4 years old and a bundle of joy. With his happy place smile and a life of dreams ahead of him, he brings great joy and happiness to my life and everyone else he encounters.
“Hi Pops,” he says, in a most sincere and enthusiastic smile. He knows when he sees Pops there are fun surprises and lots of laughter in the day ahead. Liam is my “little buddy.”
My aches and pains seem to stay at a safe distance when Liam is with us along with his mom and dad. My mind becomes full of joy and positive thoughts. These are the times when my 79 year old body feels younger. My pain levels go down while a good shot of extra energy picks me up.
We believe Liam is a miracle. We almost lost him and mom Sarah during delivery. But, by the grace of God they both made it through that scary time.
Liam is very sensitive. He also shows much empathy and compassion at such a young age. I think his mom and dad have much to do with teaching him to be a loving youngster. I believe when there’s love and kindness in a child’s homelife, they will respond inkind. I believe children are born with unconditional love. Without a loving home, children often lose trust and may need considerable time rebuilding the capacity to trust and love again.
Not every child is lucky enough to be raised in a loving home for reasons beyond their control. I know this from my own childhood experience, which didn’t leave me feeling loved once I left home to serve in the US Navy at the young age of 17.
I enjoy observing Liam’s mom and dad caring for his needs while he’s struggling and when he’s happy. When Liam is feeling bad they help him learn how to control his emotions with kindness. When he acts out it becomes a teaching moment rather than a scary experience.
I’m excited that my daughter, Sarah, along with Liam and new puppy, Rowan, are coming for a visit this coming week. I’m grateful for their visit since Judy will be in Seattle visiting her sister who needs her during this critical time.
Liam is now old enough to use the community pool. He’ll have his scooter while I have my recumbent bike for fun rides around the neighborhood. We’ll take Rowan for some more fun at our neighborhood dog park.
Because Liam loves science and exploring, I’m giving him a super cool magnifying glass. Imagine the fun learning experience we’ll enjoy together, discovering nature’s gifts up close.
As I reflect on my long life, it is remarkable to be here to completely enjoy my family without distractions. I know we’ll be here to see Liam grow up to be a healthy and happy young man.
No doubt my experience as a grandfather will resonate with many my readers who cherish their grandchildren. Hold them close because children need to know and experience the joy of knowing and loving their grandparents.
